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Bri Weimar

I am a certified teacher and former school counselor with a Master’s degree in school counseling. I spent five years in the classroom and three years supporting elementary students as a counselor before becoming a full-time content creator. I also live in a fully ADHD household. My husband, my 8-year-old son, and I are all diagnosed. The systems I share here are built from both professional training and real-life parenting. Over the past five years, I have built an online community around practical, creative solutions for chaotic families. I focus on ADHD routines, sensory challenges, executive function support, and realistic family systems that work in everyday life. My goal is simple: reduce friction, lower emotional stress, and build structure that actually sticks.
We Pulled Our Son From School Mid-Year. Here’s What Homeschooling a PDA Kid Actually Looks Like.
Behavior & Discipline ➤ April 7, 2026

We Pulled Our Son From School Mid-Year. Here’s What Homeschooling a PDA Kid Actually Looks Like.

TL;DR We pulled our PDA/ADHD son from school mid-year after the district exited him from his IEP. If you’re in that moment or approaching it — this post is about what comes next: deschooling, why...

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The Grief Nobody Talks About When You Have a Hard Kid
Behavior & Discipline ➤ April 7, 2026

The Grief Nobody Talks About When You Have a Hard Kid

Nobody warned me about this part. They tell you about the diagnosis process. The medication trials. The IEP meetings. The meltdowns. They give you frameworks and strategies and podcasts and books. Nobody tells you about...

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How to Advocate for Your PDA Child at an IEP Meeting (When the School Has Never Heard of PDA)
Behavior & Discipline ➤ April 7, 2026

How to Advocate for Your PDA Child at an IEP Meeting (When the School Has Never Heard of PDA)

TL;DR Most US schools have never heard of PDA. That doesn’t mean you can’t get your child the accommodations they need — it means you have to know how to frame the conversation. This post...

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What to Say to a PDA Kid (Scripts for Every Hard Moment, Organized by Situation)
Behavior & Discipline ➤ April 7, 2026

What to Say to a PDA Kid (Scripts for Every Hard Moment, Organized by Situation)

TL;DR What you say to a PDA kid matters as much as what you ask them to do. This post is just scripts — organized by situation. Morning, homework, bedtime, transitions, mid-meltdown, and after. Save...

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I’ve Tried Every ADHD Med, Therapy, and School Plan. Here’s What I’m Trying Next.
Behavior & Discipline ➤ April 7, 2026

I’ve Tried Every ADHD Med, Therapy, and School Plan. Here’s What I’m Trying Next.

Heads up: This post contains affiliate links. I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. TL;DR If your ADHD child is still struggling after meds, therapy, IEPs, and every intervention you...

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What Is PDA Parenting? An Honest Guide for ADHD Moms Who Are Finally Starting to Get It
Behavior & Discipline ➤ April 3, 2026

What Is PDA Parenting? An Honest Guide for ADHD Moms Who Are Finally Starting to Get It

Heads up: This post contains affiliate links. I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. All opinions are my own. TL;DR PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance, or Pervasive Drive for Autonomy) is...

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What Is the Butter Mom Aesthetic? (And How to Get It Without Spending $500 on a Sweater)
Mom Fashion ➤ April 3, 2026

What Is the Butter Mom Aesthetic? (And How to Get It Without Spending $500 on a Sweater)

The butter mom aesthetic is the 2026 answer to quiet luxury — cream linen sets, ivory tones, real food, a warm home. Here's what it actually means and how to build the wardrobe on a real budget with Amazon finds under $40.

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Aerie Spring 2026 New Arrivals for Moms: 3 Matching Sets I’ve Already Worn to Death
Mom Fashion ➤ April 3, 2026

Aerie Spring 2026 New Arrivals for Moms: 3 Matching Sets I’ve Already Worn to Death

This post contains affiliate links. If you purchase through my links, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you — it’s how I keep the blog going. I only share things...

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Bullet Journaling for Moms in Their 30s and 40s: The No-Fluff System That Actually Fits Your Life
Daily Life & Routines ➤ April 3, 2026

Bullet Journaling for Moms in Their 30s and 40s: The No-Fluff System That Actually Fits Your Life

⚠️ Affiliate Disclosure: This post contains Amazon affiliate links. If you buy something through my links, I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only recommend products I genuinely love. Full...

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Best Outdoor Water Tables for Toddlers in 2026: What’s Actually Worth It (From a Mom Who Bought Too Many)
Toys & Kids ➤ April 2, 2026

Best Outdoor Water Tables for Toddlers in 2026: What’s Actually Worth It (From a Mom Who Bought Too Many)

The best outdoor water tables for toddlers in 2026, ranked and reviewed by a mom who's tried them all. Budget picks, splurge picks, age guide — all linked on Amazon with affiliate links.

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Mom, ADHD brain, and professional over-researcher of things that make family life easier. I share what actually works in our house and translate research and real-life experience into practical tips for other parents.

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ADHD Hygiene ➤ October 18, 2019

Why Do Kids With ADHD Hate Brushing Their Teeth?

Kids with ADHD often resist brushing their teeth — and it's not about being stubborn. Sensory sensitivities, executive function challenges, and trouble with transitions all play a role. Here's what's really going on and what actually helps.

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ADHD Systems ➤ October 15, 2019

Why Cleaning Is So Hard With ADHD (And How to Break Cleaning Paralysis)

If you have ADHD and cleaning feels impossible sometimes, you are not lazy. Your brain is working against the way most cleaning advice is designed. Cleaning requires planning, sequencing steps, and starting tasks that are...

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ADHD Hygiene ➤ February 26, 2026

ADHD Kid Won’t Brush Teeth? What Actually Helps

If your ADHD kid won’t brush teeth, you are not alone. For many kids with ADHD, refusing to brush teeth is not about defiance. It is about sensory overload, executive function challenges, and transitions that...

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If your under-eyes are starting to get dry and cre If your under-eyes are starting to get dry and crepey… same 🙃

I realized those lightweight eye creams just were not cutting it anymore, so I switched to this Magis Lene eye cream from Costco.

It’s actually thick (which my skin clearly needed) and feels way more hydrating.

Also still not over the fact that this set is like $140 normally and Costco has it for under $50 right now.

I’m not skipping this step anymore.

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I think he’s about to be the star of the cafeteria I think he’s about to be the star of the cafeteria. #Satire #SchoolLunch #Hibachi #ElementarySchool
Okay wait… I sent my husband to Costco for ONE thi Okay wait… I sent my husband to Costco for ONE thing and he actually found what I was looking for. 

Apparently this Magis Lene eye cream set is like $140 everywhere else and Costco has it for under $50 right now??

The math is not mathing but I’m not asking questions.

If you’re at Costco, check the beauty aisle for the blue box before it’s gone.

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Available at select Costco stores for a limited time.
I think filtered spring water, organic specialty d I think filtered spring water, organic specialty dirt, and iv sanitization is the best mud kitchen option. #satire #mudkitchen #crunchymom
Carmelized graham crackers? #smores #christmascrac Carmelized graham crackers? #smores #christmascrack #springrecipes #memorialday
I’m not saying she’s a prodigy…but I am saying her I’m not saying she’s a prodigy…but I am saying her patient survived. 

In all seriousness though… when your kid gets locked in on something like this, you realize how important it is to protect that focus. 

We’ve been using the Bark Phone and it honestly just takes a layer of stress off. I can control what she has access to, keep an eye on things, and it alerts me to stuff like bullying or anything concerning. This means she can focus on becoming a world-renowned tomato surgeon. @barktechnologies 

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Trying a new lazy girl solution for self tanner. T Trying a new lazy girl solution for self tanner. The marinade tan bath. #satire #selftan #lazygirl #beautyhack
I’ve always wanted an olive dispenser in my fridge I’ve always wanted an olive dispenser in my fridge. #olivelover #interestingthings
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